How to be the right person, for the right person?

What do we all want and need? 

Everybody at least once a day, thinks about what they want in a partner. Haven’t we all heard from our family, friends, neighbors, etc.? I want a man like this… I want a woman like that…… It’s all about what we want and need. Some of us even have a list of the qualities we would like our partners to have. Others have already given up, because they can’t find that right person.

 

I would like to share with you something once someone told me, and I will never forget. She said something within this lines, “You want a person that is charming, and has and does everything on your list, a “perfect man”. However, do you know what this man wants? Are you the person that this “perfect man” is looking for? Would you fit all the qualities that this man wants in a woman?” 

 

 

 

Do we ever think about that your right person, and want they would like, what their needs and wants are? Do we live up to the standards of that special someone we are looking for. I don’t know about you, but I sure know I wasn’t. I would never find a charming person to fulfill all the qualities on my list, lol, if I didn’t first fulfill his.  

The final question is,  

I am the right person for the person I am looking for? Would he/she look at me and say, “I have found you!!” 

 

Don’t forget we all look for the same thing.

 

Change creates Longevity !!!

Change Creates Longevity

 

Artists now a days have become a gossip concept. When they are heard off, everyone talks about, everyone knows about it, everyone goes crazy about it, and then, everyone forgets about it. With so much music, movies, and painting created every day, no one is assured to be remembered a year from now. For people like sport players, age is a barrier.

How can you give your career longevity?   CHANGE

For example, who doesn’t know Will Smith? He has done so many things, rapping, acting, entertaining, and lately producing. If he would have stayed rapping his entire life, what would have guaranteed his success? Because the changed and developed his career even further, he created longevity.

Another example is Enrique Iglesias!

He started his career in the Hispanic market singing romantic songs. Later he introduced himself in the English speaking market with his more upbeat music. He opened his doors to change and succeeded.

“Change is good”

Below there are some tips for staring on the entertainment/artistic market.

1^st… understand that no matter what your style, skill level, or age is, there’s a tribe of humans out there among the billions that will love what you do, and gladly pay for it. Your challenge is to find them, move them, and continue to feed them.

2- YOU ARE YOUR OWN INVESTOR!!! NO ONE will come knocking on your door!!!! Can’t say that loud enough. YOU NEED TO GO OUT AND KNOCK DOORS!!

3- YOU MUST CREATE ART FOR THE RIGHT REASONS!! If you’re creating art for fame, fortune, or prestige, this may come as a shock, but you really should STOP right now!!! Clearly we all would want those things if we’re honest, but the foundation of why you create Art can’t be built on that stuff. ”I have to build this no matter what, no matter how long it takes, no matter how high I have to climb, no matter how many times I slip and fall, no matter how many obstacles get in my way, and no matter what anyone thinks!!!!!! If you CAN’T bring that kind of passion and resolve to the table, then maybe this new age of the independent Artist/Entrepreneur isn’t for you.

4- TRY TO LET YOUR ART REFLECT YOU, BUT NOT BE ABOUT YOU!  And lastly, if it’s going to be about you, then let it be something inspiring ok!

My love for Theater!

I was 14 the first time I saw a Broadway play, in New York City. It was Phantom of the Opera. I recall not being interested, just very aware of the multitude around me. I had no interest on critiquing the play. It was just a fun night at New York City.

It is only now that I have found the meaning of a live performance. There is no comparison between a live production and a film production. I was enchanted by the atmosphere and energy transferred by a Broadway Theatre, The Westchester Broadway Theatre.

 

As I walked through the aisles of this beautiful place. The thousand lights hanging from the ceiling, the stage ready to charm, and the music arranged to attract, it was all stunning. The first thing I said was, “wow!” My co-workers said, “it’s ok, you’ll get over it”. I’ve been working here for a year now, and I am still not over it. Every time I walk into this place I get the same feeling I got the very first day.

I try to see all the plays presented here, and every time I have the same reaction, “this is amazing”. If I am frightened of mistakes in film production, I am terrified of them on live performances. All my admiration to everyone involved in a play, from actors to producers, writers, artists, everyone. I wish to one day become part of such spectacle.